The Tornado, the Profanity, and the Lesson We Almost Missed
Recently, I came across a video that has stayed with me far longer than I expected. A local farming family had just lost nearly everything to a tornado. Their home. Their farm. Their machinery. Their equipment. Their outbuildings. Two beloved family dogs. In a matter of moments, an entire way of life had been turned upside down. Shortly after the tornado, the husband and father gave an informal interview. Standing in the aftermath of unimaginable loss, he tried to put words to what had just happened. And as he spoke, he used the word "fuck" several times. What surprised me wasn't the language. What surprised me was the response. Among the messages of support were comments focused almost entirely on the words he used. Some people never acknowledged the loss. They never mentioned the family. They never offered support, encouragement, or compassion. Instead, their attention remained fixed on a single word. As I sat with my reaction, I realized this wasn't really about ...